The leaving guilt
You walk away from Mum and immediately question whether you should have stayed longer.
Measure how much care guilt is shaping your decisions—and whether the real problem is not your effort, but the uncertainty left between calls, visits and check-ins.
You walk away from Mum and immediately question whether you should have stayed longer.
You feel exhausted or frustrated—then judge yourself for feeling it.
Every call, visit and task buys relief for a moment, but never closes the gap.
Answer seven focused questions. Your result will show the current level of guilt load your family may be carrying and the most useful next step.
StillHome is designed to add a quiet, camera-free and wearable-free layer of awareness around Mum’s normal routine—so reassurance does not depend entirely on you calling again, driving over again, or feeling guilty enough to do more.
No button required in the moment. No daily charging ritual. No protection that disappears because a device stayed in a drawer.
Discreet sensors can understand household activity without turning her private home into a surveillance feed.
Normal should feel quiet. Attention is reserved for unusual changes and the response plan agreed by the family.